I am a bright and outgoing female that got married when I was 28.  Four years later, I am now divorced.  While I was married, I remember thinking that marriage was the hardest thing I had ever had to do.  I stayed and I fought because I thought it would be forever. Looking back on it, the divorce was even harder, and safe to say the hardest thing I ever went through in my life.  I had to come to terms with so much: the lies I told myself to keep the marriage going, the idea that my marriage was over, the rejection and abandonment, the hurt and the pain, etc.  I wouldn’t wish what I went through on anyone; I barely made it out alive.

I am still in the process of rediscovering myself.  My past, sex, dating, and relationships are something that I plan to explore in this blog. It will be exploratory, detailed, and honest.  Some parts will be exciting and glamorous while other parts will be awkward and uncomfortable. My intent is to connect with other people, in whatever way that is.  I hope to inspire, educate, and intrigue my readers.