He shared with my that him and his wife were not having sex and hadn’t been in a while. He told me over and over how beautiful I was (after sharing photos with him), and he was eager to meet me. We scheduled a night when we would meet at a restaurant about an hour from where I live. In that moment of scheduling it all, it seemed exciting and anticipatory. I mean after all, I recall what it was like to be in a sexless marriage.
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Blowjobs-some of us love to give them, most men love to receive them. Traditionally, blowjobs were not my cup of tea. That thinking dated back to high school where I would hear young men talk about “getting head” and degrading the women that performed the act for them by calling them a “chicken head”. I still will never understand why those guys would practically beg girls for a blowjob, and once they got it, they would talk massive shit about her (bragging to friends, calling her a hoe, telling everyone and anyone that will listen what she did). And then other women would label her as a slut. It just sounded awful. Read More
But, why do two of the three phases have the word “honeymoon” in them? This whole idea of a honeymoon and post honeymoon phases is absolutely absurd to me. To understand, let’s take a deeper look at what happens in the honeymoon phase and why it creates a post-honeymoon phase…because honestly, it would be easier if we could just start with commitment and pass through all of this honeymoon bullshit.
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